"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved."
-John 3:16-17 NKJV
The New England Patriots have a history of giving players like Randy Moss, Antonio Brown, Josh Gordon, Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson, and Albert Haynesworth second (and even third) chances. These athletes have encountered many troubling incidents while on other teams including drug abuse, unsportsmanlike behavior while on the field and other team distractions. Although talented, many other teams probably wouldn’t have given them another shot. However, the Patriots always seem to be the one team that gives people a second chance to play the game of football. I truly believe that this is incredible—this is an example of God’s grace.
What is grace? Grace is unmerited favor. Because God has allowed His one and only son, Jesus, to die for our sins, He has allowed us to have His grace. Guess what? We don’t have to die to sin. All we have to do is repent to God, believe in Jesus Christ and make Him the Lord and Savior of our lives. He forgives us if we repent of our sins. Repentance means to ask God for forgiveness and turn away from sin.
God’s forgiveness is amazing and I’m so thankful for it! God can forgive us so we must do the same for others. Pray for those who have wronged you (Matthew 5:44) and pray for those who continually make bad decisions. Those who are doing wrong are really crying out for help though they may not know it.
If you are having problems forgiving others, ask God to humble you so that you can look at your own flaws, and remember that God provides you with grace. Also, pray that God will help you forgive others and He will answer your prayers (John 14:13-14). Please keep in mind that if you go to God in prayer and you are unwilling to forgive others, He will not forgive you. As a result, He will not answer your prayers (Mark 11:24-26).
Is holding a grudge worth it? No. Give everyone a second chance (and even a third or fourth chance) because God has given you chance after chance (Matthew 5:7).